What about me?

What do you wanna know?  I’ve been there.   I’ve done that.  I have experienced all sides of the equation. I’ve been wronged and I’ve been wrong.    If you live long enough, that’s usually the case.

Like most girls, I grew up believing in the fairytale.  “key words: grew up!”  A funny thing happened along the way.  “LIFE”. And you know, sometimes it wasn’t all that funny.  But for most, with age comes wisdom.  (notice I said “for most”) If you pay attention, you usually learn some stuff.  If you observe and ask questions and most importantly LISTEN, you figure a few things out along the way.  OR NOT

If there is one thing that I have learned it’s that the truth hurts. And lies hurt.  We expect more from others than we expect from ourselves.  We want the truth, but more often than not, we can’t handle it.  The lie feels so much better.  Until we learn that it’s a lie!

We would all be so much happier if we just had some real, open and honest conversations and we stopped believing in fairy tales. I am fascinated by the topic of monogamy.  Is it possible?  Anything is possible.  That being said, life experiences and numerous conversations cause me to question whether or not it is the exception or the rule!

I have had people say to me “I would never!”  “He would never!” She would never!!!!!” To that, I would respond by saying “Uh, you might.”  I have said to myself,  “I would never!” Until I did.

I’m just the person that wants to start the real, honest and open conversation.  That’s all you really need to know.

So, can we talk?

Oh yeah, I also wrote this stage play and soon to be released book tentatively entitled “Love, Lust & Lies” Side Piece Untold Stories. It’s okay.  The term “Side Piece” has gone prime time and international.  They said it on SNL for God’s sake.  Doesn’t sound nice, right?  Okay, how about mistress? Concubine?  Not much better, huh? Other woman? Just pick.  But that’s what the play and book are about.  You don’t have to see the play or read the book.  I’m just telling you about it in case you do.  And you should.